“Talk is cheap. Talk is safe. Let’s talk about love. Lust flares and dims. Relationships start and end. Love is or isn’t. Love is a person, a separate entity with its own body, metabolism, and dreams. Love is two human molecules bound to make a third.”
A + B → AB
A + B → C
Stable vs unstable reactions |
The basic models for stability: indicating that locations near the bottom of a thermodynamic potential energy well, the potential being Gibbs free energy in the human molecular case, are indicative of tight bonds and stability (the isothermal-isobaric potential); whereas, conversely, locations at the top or hill of potential are indicative of instability, a sort of heightened reaction energy state. [2] |
“Just like molecules, people need an outside force to restore the initial, ‘prelove’ conditions. Are you a stable molecule, Ginnie? I know I’m not lately.”
Reaction coordinate model (potential energy surface) of Gibbs free energy (kilojoules) of the reaction versus time (years); the negative free energy change, in the first five years of the reaction, signifying a spontaneous process; further free energy hills and valleys, following the region of greatest stability indicative of changing states of the relationship reaction (see also: energy landscapes). |
“ZeeBrain, people are not molecules! Love changes us forever. Once in love, we can never be restored to ‘prelove conditions’ even after our love is gone.”